Marcel Schwantes wrote an article for Inc. titled Science Discovered That Banning Small Talk from Your Conversations Makes You Happier.

« Questions like “what do you do?” and … commentary about the weather or last night’s game fill up awkward moments as people size each other up to determine — is this is someone I want to talk to? »

Better questions to start more substantive discussions:

  • What’s your story?
  • What makes you smile when you get up in the morning?
  • What is that one book that has influenced you the most?
  • What absolutely excites you right now?
  • What’s the most important thing I should know about you?

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